Jerkoff instruction, JOI, or jerkoff encouragement is a sexual fetish that can be both focused on elements of vanilla sex and BDSM. As the name would suggest, it is where someone, usually a dominatrix, instructs you through both verbal and visual cues on how to masturbate. It is fair to say that out of all the alternative porn niches out there, Jerkoff instruction is one of the most accessible by the general public. This is largely due to the fact that not all instances of masturbation encouragement are dominating in the sense that they degrade the male doing the jerking off.
It is an implicit element of the ‘instruction’ element that some level of power be forfeited in order to experience the fetish. After all, there would be no way for someone to give you instructions to jerk off if you did not listen to them and follow exactly as they said. The sexual fetish itself can be one that brings much pleasure to men that like being told what to do: it offers a standard, non-extreme version of submission that is in most cases completely painless and focused entirely on the aspect of pleasure through being dominated.
Of course, there are some men who like to be given instructions on how to jerk off in a way that might satisfy their desire to feel pain. Common commands such as hitting yourself in the balls or squeezing your cock really hard might be two instances of how a dominatrix can make you suffer as a result of your desire to be instructed. Additionally, it is also possible that when you are about to orgasm and the dominatrix gives you a countdown, instead of allowing you to finish, they will stop at a relatively low number and tell you that you are not allowed to orgasm. Tease and denial are an integral part of jerkoff instruction, with much focus set upon just how willing a slave is willing to go in order to please his mistress.
In some cases, JOI coexists with jerkoff encouragement. Sometimes, it is not only desired to be told how to masturbate by a mistress, it is also desired to be told that they actively want you to enjoy it and reach orgasm. Sex can be a wonderful experience when you feel as if someone else wants you to enjoy it: in the case of jerkoff encouragement, being asked to ‘cum’ for someone as they tell you how they want to do it can feel like the real thing.
There has been a recent drive in online porn for JOI. After all, it is relatively inexpensive for producers to create the content, and it comes with the added bonus of being perfectly suited to the niche. Many people masturbate to porn but are unsure when they should be getting ready to orgasm: when it comes to jerkoff instruction, being told that you should be prepared to cum is a very easy way to align the moment you should be releasing yourself with the content prompt.
Jerkoff instruction is a fun, enjoyable fetish that can be as dominating and sadistic as you like or as tender and loving as you desire. The benefit of accessing JOI porn means that you can find the exact balance of pain, pleasure and denial you want to experience when masturbating.
Here is a short story related to jerkoff encouragement:
Wow, just look at the size of that cock! I want you to take it out of those pants and start to play with it. You have a gorgeous shaft and you should be stroking it as hard as you can for me right now. That’s it, well done. Does it feel good knowing that in a few minutes, you’re going to be covering these tits with your cum? Close your eyes for me and imagine that hand being my pussy, going up and down on your cock. I bet that’s quite an enjoyable sensation, right? Now, speed right up, because I want you to release in three… two… one… now! Shoot your delicious cum all over my face and tits.